Hey ! This is me again . Realising lately how most of my close friends are happily married and living blissully . This is gonna be amazing for us as well and in more ways than one.
For the longest time I was afraid of new obligations and changing nuances of my life. Leaving home isn’t easy as it seems. But, this is not the only thing in life that comes with changes. I went to college, hostel, living farther from home on rent and switching places due to job. It was ultra challenging to put up with life sometimes and thrilling to live one like mine.
Change is a part of life. As one says , the only thing constant is change. Growing up , we went to school; very crucial aspect and life altering phase for a human. It dawns on me how we all are terrified at the least thought of it in our childhood . Nevertheless, we grow through it beautifully. Time was crafted with love and we were nurtured to our best potential ,school is such an integral part of our lives so much so that we accept going for it rather than running away .
Unlike the institution of marriage, we accept most of the changes sooner in lives and prepare our selves for the best of it. Here, what we fear is the fear of the unknown and uncertainty of the future. We are unaware what our future beholds. And forget that everything comes to be good and even better with time. Sab acha hi hota hai.
It seldom occur to us that life is unpredictable even if we make plans for we don’t know what will change the course of path for us!!!
As for a bride, she leaves everything behind. Her lifestyle, her choices, her preferences and what she dreamt for her own ; for a better future of everyone. It feels so empowering to be able to find a new home, a new family , create new relationships , to love and to foster home into a loving paradise. This role is more than just having new wardrobe, lifestyle or new choices. It’s about us and our journey on this physical plane.
Bride is simply an endearing pursuit of a woman to restart her journey of life from scratch. To relive what she loves and to make room for love in everyones lives.
Indeed Life is a journey. Enjoy the essence and not the materialistic part of it only. This physical reality is much more than just aiding us in living. Marriage is sugar to our tea which enhances flavour and joy of each sip. Only if the sip is taken with patience and love. Being a bride is so empowering ; to influence more than one family, to take charge of more than ourself and to able to create a new life form in this reality.
Thank you for the read. I hope to see you soon again !
Love and blessings for you !♥️
Yours Red September!!